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Our room in Rarotonga |
Tuesday, July 5, 1988: Nikki and I are sharing a room in Rarotonga before catching the cargo plane to Atiu with the other volunteers. The weather is cool, overcast, and windy. Our back window looks out on jungle and our front window on the ocean, framed by coconut palm trees, hibiscus, orchids, and bougainvillea.
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Dr. Sinoto and Dr. Stephenson |
Our expedition leaders Dr. Rebecca Stephen-son, Dr. Hiro Kurashina, and the senior investigator, Dr. Yosi Sinoto held a press conference this morning describing our goals -- to trace the route of Polynesian colonization through archeological artifacts and to observe changes in island culture by comparing our journals to similar information collected by Becky in her year on the island for her doctoral study a decade ago.
At lunch today we were told the difficulty of Earthwatch trips varies a great deal. One woman, on her eighth expedition, said the Borneo trip was the toughest. At times they tracked the orangutans through waist-deep swamp water and afterwards had to pull leeches off each other. Because they moved from place to place, their camp sites and facilities were temporary. At one site, the team leaders were concerned about a wild boar in the area. So their night visits to the latrine -- a wooden plank over a large hole -- required balancing on the plank while holding a flashlight and a club.
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Nikki left front, Mary middle front |
In contrast, we look forward to a welcome from friendly and loving Māori islanders. Two members of our group have been to Atiu with Earthwatch before. Both are back because they became so attached to their hosts. Each of us will live with a family for two weeks, and those two will stay with the same families as before.
At today's briefing we learned that Māori is a directive language. Technically, "please" and "thank you" do not exist, so we shouldn't be surprised if told "Do this!" Reciprocity is integral to this culture. If you admire something, an Atiuan will feel obligated to give it to you. The same goes for us -- we'll know what gifts to give members of our families by what they admire among our possessions. The Māori have a saying that things "get legs." The children will be curious about jewelry, or small alarm clocks, or watches. If we leave such things lying around, they might disappear.
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Umukai (feast) |
Because we're guests, we will probably eat alone until our families get to know us, and we will eat with our hands, as they do. Shoes are not worn in the house. Both men and women are affectionate and will hug and kiss on the cheek. When attending the dances, a tap on the knee by a man will be an invitation to dance. After the dance a tap on the rear end will be an unspoken "Thank you."
There will be a conspicuous display of food, and we'll show our pleasure by eating a lot, though not necessarily everything. We asked a man who was here last year what that really means. He said, "It means six meals a day."
Thursday, July 7, 1988
Nikki
and I awoke early in Rarotonga yesterday from anxious dreams about
being in unfamiliar territory. After two weeks on the island of Atiu
we'll probably come back to the "civilized" world and wonder why we do
all the things we do. But in these early days we'll have to adapt to a
simpler life. Few Atiuan homes have running water, for example.
Instead, most collect rain water. Becky says "When it's time to wash up
you'll take a pitcher and basin to the bath house. Do it the way
birds do."
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Nikki wearing a pareu |
In
Atiu's traditional Christian culture, women are expected to dress
modestly. Bathing suits, short shorts, or low-cut tops are not
acceptable, although families may have different standards for attire
in the privacy of their homes. For swimming and as a cover-up at
home, Nikki and I each bought a pareu (sarong), two yards of
cloth to wrap around the body in various ways. We chose the same dark
blue and green on white pattern.
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My room in Papa Tu's home |
I'm
now sitting in bed in my small room in Atiu at 5:15 a.m. The canopy
is made of white lace, and a gentle cross-breeze flows from the window
to the open hall in the middle of the house on this hot, muggy morning.
Papa drew the plans for this house, and he and his brother built it
from cement block, with a raised tin roof to let the air circulate. I'm
glad I brought a battery-operated book light, because electricity on
the island is turned off between 10 p.m. and 6 a.m.
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Our outhouse in back |
Washing
up was easier than I expected because the collected rainwater flows
from a spigot in the bath house. Before "doing as the birds do" last
night, I brushed my teeth and rinsed the brush in my bath water I was a
bit nervous using the outdoor toilet in the dark, but found it
flushes with only a little help from a bucket of water kept at the
door of the outhouse.
So
much is new, some expected because of our briefings, some surprising.
It's certainly true, as we've been told by many people, that families
here are wonderfully generous and caring. I have the good fortune to
live at the home of the mayor, called Papa Tu by everyone because of his position in the village, and his wife Teu Mere, or Mere for short -- a name pronounced like mine: Mare-Ray, though I'm to call her "Mama."
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Mama (Mere) on the right, in blue |
As promised, our plane (one of two) was met yesterday by our host families and we were draped with eis (called leis in
Hawaii) and our hair bedecked with garlands of flowers. I went with
Mama right away to our home, where she served me fresh coconut milk (in
a coconut), and two kinds of coconut meat: the nutty, mature meat and
the immature flesh of the sprouting coconut -- fluffy, juicy, and very
tender, similar in flavor but more delicate.
After the second plane arrived, we were all taken to two umukais (feasts), the first an official greeting by Papa Tu and the head ariki
(chieftain). Because it's customary for guests to eat first, our hosts
did not join us in this feast of passion fruit juice, chicken,
bananas, cookies, marinated squash, and a staple of the island called taro.
This bland-tasting root looks somewhat like a sweet potato, although it
can be grey or white or pink. Papa Tu says the color varies by where
it's grown and how much moisture surrounds it.
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Umukai (feast) |
The second umukai
followed a brief religious ceremony at the Sunday School. Papa Tu, who
is also the assistant minister, introduced the minister -- a younger,
quite heavy man with a booming voice, who gave a sermon on love. I taped
the traditional hymn which was sung in Māori, eerie and beautiful, all
the voices clear and joyful.
My island family is highly religious. Yesterday evening, after I was shown to the bath house and we had coffee, tea, and more taro
with butter, some of the children and Mama's sister Rongo came in for
evening devotion. Papa Tu played the guitar while all sang a folk hymn
in a combination of Māori and English. Mama and the children alternated
reading verses from the Bible in Māori. In my honor, Papa Tu read in
English. Then we had a closing prayer.
Papa Tu and
Mere have raised 21 children; only the two youngest boys still at home.
Newton is 10 years old and very handsome, named after the town in
New Zealand where five of their children lived at one time. Another son
lives in the next village because he has a girlfriend there. I asked
if they are married, and Papa Tu said, "Not yet. It is better that they
know each other first, so they don't divorce right away, as so many
have done." This son and his girlfriend have a two-year-old boy.
Papa
Tu is very proud of his family, especially his oldest brother, who has
passed away. In their inside sitting room are photographs on the
walls, decorated with shell necklaces. This brother's picture is
displayed prominently next to one of Papa Tu when he was younger. This
oldest brother, Vainerere Tangatapoto, was Becky Stephenson's "Papa" on
the island -- the one she lived with for a year and a half thirteen
years ago while collecting data for her dissertation in anthropology.
Papa says his brother loved Becky like a daughter and she loved him
like a father.
Clearly, Papa Tu's favorite son is his
namesake, who lives in New Zealand and is very much missed. Papa
recalls with great tenderness Teio Tu's helpfulness as a boy. Mama says
Teio Tu helped Papa put up the kitchen ceiling when he was only 12
years old.
There
are other children about, mostly nieces, and one granddaughter. Of one
of the nieces, Tau, Papa Tu says her parents are "not good." These
relatives of Mama's, he said, drink a lot and go away at night with
their "gang," leaving the children unattended.
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Papa Tu with the children |
Humor is a big part of their lives. Papa Tu teased Mama that only her
relatives are bad. Even his nephew joked with Papa at the feast last
night, saying everyone hoped Papa would keep his speech short.
Mama
speaks English quite well, though not as fluently as Papa. This is, I
suspect, partly due to personality, and partly to roles. Papa Tu does
most of the talking and he's the one who decides what's appropriate
behavior for me. Mama is present, adding comments or laughing.
In
this morning's briefing we were asked to describe to the Earthwatch
group what we've observed so far, and I found myself tongue-tied, trying
to share how open my family has been and how touched I am by their
stability and spiritual depth. Though many described themselves as happy
with their families, I believe I'm the luckiest to be with mine. I'm
interested in the island's history and traditions, and my family holds
to most of the historical culture.
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Mama dressed me in a traditional costume |
In contrast, Nikki is with a "modern"
family -- they watch TV (VCR) till midnight, drink Diet Pepsi, and eat
mostly tinned food. I'm sure her "Mama" believes she is serving her
guest especially well, but Nikki isn't experiencing the old ways of the
islanders.
There was much laughter in my family, for example, when Mama dressed me in this traditional costume.
Friday, July 8, 1988
I
slept soundly, in spite of some on our team telling me of cockroaches
and other insects in their rooms. Awakened by bird calls, I remembered
being a child on my grandparent's farm and hearing the cocks crow in the
early morning, though the Mynah birds are certainly a new touch.
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Mama waiting for me to eat |
For
breakfast we had shredded coconut, taro, fried eggs, papaya, cabin
bread (a thick cracker), butter, and mashed bananas fried with arrowroot
(looks like a potato pancake)--delicious. And Mama is generous to
ensure there's always hot water for my herb tea. For lunch we had the
same food as at breakfast, with the addition of both fried and fresh
bananas. I think Papa Tu gave Mama this instruction because I said I
love bananas. Mama says grace in Māori before each meal. Papa Tu repeats
it in English.
I've learned to say Kia Orana
("May you live"), a special greeting that's more than "hello." This
morning, as Papa Tu and I sat outside the house in front, everyone who
passed said "Morning," with an Australian-sounding accent. I learned
this was not for my benefit, but rather a typical greeting. All the Atiu tupu talk and joke in Māori in
my presence. I feel happy rather than excluded, knowing they act
naturally around me, even though I'm sure they're sometimes talking
about me.
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With Jay at today's dig |
One
team member, Jay Powell, is staying at the home of Mama's sister, who
sent him over here for lunch because she didn't know we'd take a mid-day
break and hadn't prepared food. Papa was charming and funny, trying to
get Jay to eat more. I said I'd already proven I "eat like a pig." This
is a family joke because the Māori word for papaya, vipuaka, literally means "food for the pigs." Before the Europeans arrived, the Māori never ate papaya; they only fed it to the pigs.
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I'm sitting near the cab, white socks and sneakers |
On
the way home from the dig today, our truck driver stopped at the harbor
to let off a young German woman and English man who had wandered the
island while their ship unloaded its cargo. On the deck we saw crates
and crates of beer marked Atiu Motel. Papa has told me of
attempts to reduce the amount of drinking in the village, especially
among the young people. He discussed this with all the parents, who
agreed to enforce a curfew. Many wanted to completely ban drinking, but
Papa understood this would simply lead to rebellion, and too many young
people were already leaving the island.
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Papa Tu |
As
Becky has explained, Māori is indeed a directive language, and Papa
Tu's efforts to guide me sound like commands. Even so, he's pretty
flexible. He'll say "Eat more," followed by "You do not have to finish
if you are full." After I returned this afternoon he said, "You should
take a little rest and then a bath before dinner." I asked if I could
take a bath first and he was hesitant, but I think this was more because
Mama wasn't around to find things for me. When I showed him my soap and
told him my towel was in the bath house, he seemed more at ease with my
impertinence. But later when I left my room after writing in my
journal, he said "You go back and rest. I will tell you when Mama is
back and dinner is ready."
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Spirit House (Marae) |
Tonight after dinner Papa Tu told me about the Cook Islands celebration
held each year to commemorate "the coming of the Gospel." Each island
celebrates according to its own history. On Atiu, villagers prepare and
rehearse a play. Our village, Tengatangi, reenacts the arrival of John Williams.
Before his landing, a woman had foretold the coming of strange men,
their bodies covered from head to toe. They would bring a new god and
all the present gods would be cast away. The islanders had thought her
crazy, but the head ariki
was the first to be convinced. When others protested, he demonstrated
the power of this God by eating sugar cane from a sacred place, a Marae,
to test their belief that doing so would lead to possession by the
devil. When nothing happened to him, he offered this as proof that the
new god had greater power. Soon afterward, everyone accepted the
Christian God.
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Earthwatch Team and families in front of C.I.C.C.
I'm back row, second from right |
There are three churches on Atiu: Catholic, Seventh
Day Adventist, and the Cook Islands Christian Church (C.I.C.C.) to which
Papa Tu and his family belong. They and the minister, as well as some
others, are Born Again Christians who want to move their church toward a
more literal interpretation of the Bible, banning musical instruments
in church.
Papa Tu told me today the traditional hymn we heard on our arrival is from Psalm 25:
Those
who trust in the Lord are like Mount Zion, which cannot be shaken, but
endures forever. As the mountains surround Jerusalem, so the Lord
surrounds his people both now and forever more. The sceptre of the
wicked will not remain over the land allotted to the righteous, for then
the righteous might use their hands to do evil.
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Some of the children surrounding me |
This
sounds very Western and formal, and I couldn't have imagined those
words from the haunting, traditional singing that ushered in our
arrival.
Tonight at evening devotion Papa Tu's family and I sang this song in English, accompanied by Papa Tu on guitar: He
is able, He is able, He is able to carry me through, heal the
brokenhearted, set the captive free, make the lame to walk again, make
the blind to see.
Mama and Papa Tu's son, Ina Ina,
who lives in another village, was here for dinner tonight. We had taro
leaves (somewhat like spinach, but tastier) cooked with corned beef,
fish in coconut sauce, bread, butter, boiled bananas, and a choice of
tea or coffee. The fish was excellent. The boiled bananas take some
getting used to, their taste and texture somewhat like artichoke hearts,
only more dense. We started eating before Papa returned from the bath
house, and Mama taught me to slurp my food as a sign of enjoyment. When
Papa came in we demonstrated, and after that we all ate noisily. I'm
sure they had restrained themselves from this in earlier meals.
This
led to a story from Papa about a visit to New Zealand, when his older
brother taught him how to use a fork. In one restaurant Papa embarrassed
his brother by asking a member of the staff if he could eat with his
hands. The answer was "Yes." Then lobster was brought in, and Papa felt a
step ahead of everyone.
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Islanders & Earthwatch team; I'm in red shirt, middle |
Saturday, July 9:
We had our first work day yesterday, but not a long one, only about
five hours. We can walk to this site and cleared off about one-third of
the Marae at Vairokaia, on land next to my family's
plantation. Among the whole team we excavated pig's teeth, a flake, and
what appears to be the top of a fireplace, as well as many shells. The
boys from the village, who helped us clear away the site, climbed up
nearby trees and brought us fresh coconuts to have with our lunch. After
drinking the coconut milk, we were shown how to scrape the fresh
coconut out with our thumb nails.
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Musicians at singing competition |
In
the evening there was a singing competition and dance. Two of the four
finalists, as well as the guest singer, are from Papa Tu's extended
family. It is the custom here to take small coins (10 or 20 cents NZ)
and throw them in a basin in front of the entertainer. Some people show
their pleasure in the music by dancing on their way up to throw a coin.
With only a little coaxing from Mama, I danced my way up with a coin.
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Tangiia |
Today, I learned from Papa Tu the meaning of some names. Our village is Tengatangi after a chief of the old days--Tangiia--who was very popular in the Cook Islands. The village's original name was Taturoa ("standing point that is long"). A village farther toward the coast is Ngatiarua.
Papa Tu's given name is Teiotu-O-Tangaroa ("The Standing Mirror of Tangaroa). Tangaroa was the god of gods, and the "standing mirror" refers to a clear lake where Tangaroa was said to have looked to see if all the other gods were happy.
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Mama and Papa Tu in front area of house |
Mama's name, Teu Mere,
is her wedding name, not the one she was given as a child. Her older
sister was Papa Tu's first wife, who died in her early thirties. Papa Tu
considered moving to New Zealand at that time, but the families got
together and decided he should marry his wife's younger sister, who was
then 18 years old. The name Teu Mere means "something surprising," referring to her sister's sudden death. Their twin sons are named Rouru Ina Ina ("gray hair," after Papa Tu's mother-in-law) and Tangiia (after the famous chief).
This
morning, after being notified that our trip to the caves was postponed
due to rain, some of us walked to the Atiu Motel. There are three units,
with a fourth being built. The owner was away, but we met a couple from
Canada staying there who showed us inside their unit. It's an A=frame
with indoor plumbing, a double and a single bed, and a loft that could
sleep two more people. Food is supplied in the small kitchen area, and
guests are charged only for the food or beverages they use. Papa Tu says
the motel owner, Roger, met his Atiuan wife in New Zealand and came
here "to get away from the rat race." The islanders are not happy with
him, some even urging that he be deported. He built a saw mill to
produce the lumber for his motel, which is made almost totally from
materials found on the island. But he charges dear prices in the mill.
Also, while shops in the village are open only in early morning and late
afternoon, he keeps his shop open for long hours, and the Atiu tupu
believe he is trying to steal their money. Finally, he doesn't impress
on guests the ways of the people here. Papa stopped one woman riding by
on a motor bike wearing short shorts, telling her angrily to go back to
the motel and put on some clothes.
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I'm ready to walk to the dig site |
The
women and female children in Papa's family never wear pants. I wore
Bermuda shorts once, but could see from how he looked away that he was
uncomfortable, so I only wear long pants or a skirt at home. The women
here sit with their ankles crossed, and rarely cross their legs. Yet
I've noticed children bathing together outside next to the house. I
asked Papa at what age the boys and girls are separated to bathe, and he
would only say, "When they are older."
Papa
treats "Mommy," as he calls her, gently, and shares decisions and some
tasks with her, though roles are traditionally delineated. She cooks,
cleans, washes clothes. As head of the household, he governs through
participation much the way he governs as mayor. Mama rarely tells me
what to do as he does, but apparently influences his decisions. For
example, I had told her I couldn't eat all the food she sent with me for
lunch, and when Papa was late for dinner she confided in me that she
had told him not to insist on so much food for me. When he is away, she
and I laugh as if we were sisters, and even plan jokes to play on him,
as we did with my noisy slurping of food. They both laughed heartily
with me.
Papa Tu's home office is in the front bedroom across from mine. He
says Mama insisted on having a bed where he could sleep when he works
late.
The
children seem to live next door in the second house, where Mama's
sister also lives, and only come here for devotional services. When they
do peek around corners Papa admonishes them to be quiet.
He told me
they are "too noisy" to live in this house, but I think some of them
sleep here when there are no guests.
Sunday, July 10,1988:
Wero ("to cast a spear") is a traditional Māori challenge at a pōhiri, or welcoming ceremony, to ensure that visitors come in peace. It also establishes their steadfastness, and the prowess of the challenging warriors.
The male members of Nikki's family took her to a tu munu
(brewery) last night, where only women visiting the island
are allowed (for local women it would be considered a disgrace). tu munu sites are in the middle of the jungle, the
beer brewed and stored in the hollowed-out trunk of a coconut tree. The
brew itself is fermented orange, and generally takes about a week to be
ready to drink. Nikki said the beer tasted like fruit punch and she didn't drink much, worried it would be too easy to
get drunk. A recording she made sounded like a noisy bar
anywhere. Singing, music, laughter.
Meanwhile Jay and I
accompanied my family to their Saturday evening prayer meeting, where
everyone in the group was asked to share something. When it was my turn,
I spoke of my pleasure to come half-way around the world and hear
children singing songs I had learned as a child: "Rock my soul in the
bosom of Abraham" and "What a friend we have in Jesus." I could barely
keep my composure when members of the group sang a welcome song, then
filed by, kissing each of us one by one and saying "I love you, in the
name of Jesus." Papa Tu also read Psalm 133 in Māori: "How good and
pleasant it is when brothers live together in unity. . ."
Mama
has a very clear singing voice, and helped guide me through the hymns
in church today. I was also able to follow the hymnal pretty well. She
told me later that people watched my lips and were happy to know I was
singing in Māori.
After
church there was a meeting for women only. This involved a combination
of individual responses to today's bible text and spontaneous dancing,
usually started by an older woman. Mama says they call this woman, Mama Mika, their "comic." I was invited to dance, and tried to imitate the hula-like movements, which generated much laughter.
Though some Earthwatch
members modeled traditional island dresses made for them by their
Mamas, most of the local women wore modern dress to church. All them
have brimmed hats, and Mama loaned me a white one with white ribbon
trim. She had hand-woven this hat, heavy enough to withstand today's
strong winds. When I commented on the winds' force, Mama said her
parents were in a hurricane before she was born that was so terrible all
the houses and trees were flattened. People survived only by running
into the valley below.
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Maru |
I am slowly learning the names of the children. Today after church, 5-year-old Maru took my hand walking home. Her mother, Mama's sister, is Rongo. In addition to Mama and Papa's son Newton, their daughter is Miimetua, and they have a "feeding child" (adopted) who is actually their niece, named Ngatokorua. Other nieces are Tau and--born in New Zealand--Jennifer and Darlene.
Returning
from a walk after church, I met a young woman from New Zealand as she
was leaving our house. She's here to study local music in preparation
for a Master's degree in music, and was seeking Papa Tu's permission to
tape record his family's traditional challenge to
distinguished visitors. Though she'd tried to convince him it might
otherwise be lost to posterity, he would not give permission. I asked
Papa about this, and he said it is a welcome greeting allowed only to
his family. I've seen him willingly agree to other requests, so I know
this is a real family secret.
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Mama making tapa cloth. |
This afternoon after lunch, our Earthwatch senior investigator Yosi Sinoto came by to find out who in Atiu is most skilled at making tapa cloth from ava bark, and Papa pointed to Mama. She showed us a photograph where she is pounding the cloth over a log. Yosi said Hawaiian Air
will pay her airfare and hotel for a week in Honolulu, plus $75 a day.
In return, she will present at a two-day workshop demonstrating and answering questions about this
traditional method.
Papa, trained by his father
in the traditional ways, answered many of Yosi's questions and is
negotiating to accompany Mama. He showed us a hand-knotted fishnet used
to catch flying fish in the old way. Papa is now the only one on Atiu who can make an akeikei (fish-catching basket) in the traditional manner because none of the young ones want to learn how. He also spoke of picking anani
(oranges) as a boy and rowing a thousand cases at a time out to the
ship, because the reef is too dangerous for ships to dock at the wharf.
Mama said the pickers would climb the first orange tree, then leap from
tree to tree by the branches.
Monday, July 11, 1988
Because it's not economical to grow ara (pineapple), Atiu is losing potential trade in taro, nu (sprouting coconut), and akari (mature coconut) that used to be shipped ot New Zealand along with pineapple. Ships will not come unless there is a minimum of 300,000 cartons of pineapple. Coffee production is also slacking because there's been difficulty collecting payment for the coffee beans already shipped. Vanilla beans are now being planted for export, but they won't mature for a couple of years. The freight costs prohibit exporting spices.
While Papa and I were discussing exports, Hiro stopped by with a young man who has a brown belt in karate. I had told HIro about my brown belt, and they were here to invite me to their karate class on Wednesday evening. I told him I cannot practice because of my neck injury, but will be delighted to observe. Two of Para Tu's sons (the twins) have black belts.
Today, there was much talk about the three nieces and two granddaughters who will return tomorrow from Rarotonga, where they have been attending a conference for the Girls' Brigade.We looked through family photo albums, with pictures of granddaughters Mata Tu and Rima, and nieces Vaine (wah-ee-nay), Ina, and Aketaau. The albums highlighted the 21st birthday of the twins because 1st and 21st birthdays are special events on Atiu (other birthdays are noted, but no gifts).